Don't feed your ghosts-before they're too big

The little girl grew....
yes..everyone is a kind of immature at the begining of everything new no matter how old he is...

But it wasn't the girl only who grew....her ghosts grew with her..

Ghosts?
What ghosts?
Do you believe in such superstitions?

Yes I do. We do them and they do us.

Wait. WHat do you mean?

Hmmmmm....well,let me put it this way

I know so many people who fear failure, because they failed before...or who have been psychologically incapable, due to how their parents treated them when they were young, or who keep searching for the one they loved in every face that meets them, because they lost in a way or another, or who comsume too much control over things, because they're perfectionists, etc..

These people were fine one day till they got through one or more experience, the experience was there to let them only learn a new life lesson and then move on and live a better life....but it wasn't the case and this is what drives me today to say that every person has psychological issues so be ware!

But what happened?

Their ghosts prevented them from living a better life...ghosts are selfish, they live and don't let live...

We go through the experience, and a tiny small ghost is born inside us, unfortunately most people are stupid enough or weaker than that tiny ghost to not kill it when it's tiny...instead we keep feeding this ghost...we feed it every single time we think about it, or surrender to it...each time the ghost grow, we look at it, turn our backs and run and it grows, we think about it being a ghost and how much we're scared of it and it grows more, we talk about our ghost and how it's affecting our lives and it grows, we escape every new encounter that might get in touch with the ghost and it grows and its confidence in itself keeps boosting till one day we find the ghost bigger and older than us...till one day the ghost is taking control and deciding for us what and what not to go for or do....

The more their ghosts grew, the harder it was to kill them, because by that time they were stronger than us and by that time our self confidence evaporated infront of the ghost and we took ghosts as a fact that we need to live with and as part of ourselves...

Which is definitly nothing but some mental adjustments...again, not to face our ghosts!

These ghosts were their fears....the fears that kept being ensured evertime we refuse to believe that the best is yet to come, when we refuse to cross the fence and we collect all our courage to jump we find that the fence got higher so we sit beside it crying telling ourselves that we shouldn't have tried, we knew we're gonna fail...and it was all the matter of being late deciding to jump!

Does anyone know what weapons we can use when our ghosts are way to big for people to kill and when they become a source of noise and constant fear?